Achcha kaise bane? How To become Good Step Wise

Achcha banana bahut hi easy hota hai.aap apne chahre par smile rakhe aur ” please ” aur ” thank you ” word use kare.aap ache bane aur logo ko acha feel hone de aur apne relationship ko acha banaye. agar aap logon le sath ache se rahenge to log aapki help karenge.to aap sikhe kaise aap ache ban sakte hai.

Ache kaise bane?

Part one

1. aap humesa smile kare: aap logo ko janane de ki aap kitna pleasant hai.aap person ke aankh me dekhe aur ek choti si smile de.isase aap dusre people ko bhi smile karne ke liye encourage kar sakte hai.agar aap aisa nhi karenge to may be unka din bad ho sakti hai.aur jab aap ache banate hai to jaruri nhi hai ki iske positive response aayenge.par ye usually ye help kar karti hai.

aap smile kare agar aap logon ke Street se pass karte hai.agar aap kuch kharid rahe hai to aap shop clerk ko dekh kar smile kare jab aap school ke liye jate hai.agar log rude hai to jaruri nhi ki aap bhi rude ho.

 

2. logo ko acknowledge kare: agar aap aise logo ko jante hai Jo past hai aap use samman de aur unhe “hello” bole ya “hi” bole.aap logo ko thori special feel karwaye.agar aap crowded city me hai to acknowledge karna bahut hard hoga .

aap unse ache se behave Karane ki koshish kare .aur try kare ki aap next bus par sath me baith sake.aur aap ek dusre ko ” good morning ” jarur bole.

 
3. aap logo se pujhe ko kaise hai: aap logon se puchne me time le ki vo kya kar rhe hai kaise reh rhe hai.agar vo jyada baat nhi kar rhe hai to unhe push na kare.

 

4. aap ache listener bhi bane: agar dusre log aap se baat kar rhe hai to unhe sune.ye acha nhi hota hai ki aap dusre logon ki story ko ignore kare.

unhe bolne de.agar aap kisi se baat kar rhe hai to apne haath me muh me ba dale .aap wait politely unke finish karne ka wait kare aur topic change kar de unke discussion ke baad.agar aap apne stranger se baat kar rhe hai aur aap uncomfortable hai to aap khud ko excuse kare aur chale jaye waha se.

 
5. aap courteous bane: aap apna manners humesa use kare.aur please aur thank you bole.aur patient rakhe .caring bane,aur observant aur consideration rahe.aap logo ko respect ke sath treat kare.

 

6. aap animals ke sath ache se rehna: kabhi na bhule agar aap achae ache insaan banana chahte hai to aapko humesa animals ke sath nhi ache se rehna hoga.animals bhi respect deserve karte hai dusre insan ke jaisa..aap apne amusement ke liye animals ko tease na kare .
Part two

Achcha banne ke liye tips

 

1. aap humesa positive rahe jab aapke friends aapko advice de rhe ho ya vo conversation ke mood me ho to aap negative Na bane.aap positive dikhe aur unhe situation cheer up karne ki.aap apne friends ko compliment de.

 
2. humble rhe.aur sincere bane aap ache bane kyunki jab aap piche dekhenge to aap jaanenge ki aap ache person the.

 
3. aap do face ke na bane aap bahut jyada brag na bane .aap logon ke bare me baat na kare aap backstabber na bane.aap logon ko unke trust gain karne me help kare.agar aap unke puche baat karenge to log aapko pasand nhi karenge. Ye aapko shallow banati hai .aur aap ache nhi lagenge.

 
4. aap kindness bane.har roz aap choti choti chezon par dhyan de jaise apne teacher ke liye door hold kare aur smile kare.ye sari chizen aapko jyada achi banati hai.

 

5. aap sabhi ke sath equal behave kare. aap logon ko race,age,gender,ability aur religion se judge na kare.

 

Is tarah se aap ek ache person ban sakte hai aur log aapko pasand karne lagenge.

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